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The Connection Specialist: Dandelion Quills

Julie Vogler
Relationship Coach & Writer

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Men, We Need You

We honor men who choose growth. Men who lead themselves. Men other men can trust. Men who take responsibility and rise with integrity.

Strong Men
Strong Men

As a Relationship Coach, Men often message me

asking if I can help them become better men.


And while I respect the desire for growth… I’m not the one to guide you through that.


Men need men for that work. Not because women can’t see you —but because part of becoming a man is learning to trust other men.


I know that’s hard. Many men grew up without safe male role models.Or were let down by fathers, brothers, teachers, or peers.


But there are men out there now who walk with integrity. Who have done their work. Who will hold you without shaming you — and call you forward without rescuing you.


Find them. Hire them. Let yourself be held by someone who understands your wiring from the inside out.


Women are not your practice ground. We carry enough.


Your healing doesn’t start with us —it starts with learning to trust your own kind again.


If you’re serious about this work, I’m happy to point you toward men I trust. Men who can help you become the man you want to be — not just the one women approve of.


But healing starts when you reclaim your place in the brotherhood —when you allow yourself to be seen, held, and challenged by men who’ve walked the path.


Because I believe in men. And I believe in you.

 


We honor men who choose growth. Men who lead themselves. Men other men can trust. Men who take responsibility and rise with integrity. There are men doing the work — and doing it well. Grounded. Fierce. Humble. We need more of that. If you're feeling the pull to grow, to break cycles, to become someone your kids can look up to —don’t look to a woman to teach you how to be a man. Find a man who's walked the fire.

 
 
 

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